Tuesday, April 5, 2016

HEART WANTS WHAT IT WANTS

I was reading some articles and I ran into one quote that catch my eye.

“I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” 
― Maya Angelou



And if you think about it, it makes sense and it's true. Mind can fail you in many ways, your memory won't always hold on to every word or detail, but your heart, he never fails you. I bet that every one of us can remember how did we feel when we had our first kiss, or first sex or even a first break up. Can you all remember how does it feel to be loved and how does it feel when your heart is broken? I bet you do. And so do I.


If there is many of you guys who didn't get over your exes I bet that is the reason why. Many of us know that ex is bad for us and that person is ex for the right reasons and we have to move on, but we still hold on to it, and not because you remember what did that ex said or done, but because your heart remembers how did you feel when that ex said first I love you, your heart still remembers how does it feel to have his/her lips on yours, how does it feel to make love to that person, how does it feel when that person wrap his/her arm around you. Heart remembers, even your skin remembers those goosebumps you felt when his/hers arm was on you. So there for, you will always remember how did he/she made you feel, and if you think that you miss your ex boyfriend or girlfriend, you don't actually. You miss the way he/she made you feel.


Maybe that feeling is happiness, maybe sense of security or feeling that you are loved and wanted. And I think that until you find those feelings that you felt with ex boyfriend or girlfriend in another person, you are stuck with not being able to move on.
But I'll admit, feelings are tricky little things. You never know what will wake them up. Old song, old place that you went with the person from your past or even a movie you guys watched together will do the trick. And you are back to that memory land again.


But it does make you wonder, doesn't it? About your behavior towards other people. Imagine if we all went every day with that thought that every one of the people that we have contact with will remember how did we make them feel, don't you think that a world would be a better place?


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