MOVIES SENDS THE WRONG MESSAGE!

So am watching some movie and in it, some guy comes to his ex in the middle of the night, she gets up to open the door, like half sleeping, but she still has perfect hair, make up and even voice for someone who have just awakened.

He enters, starts telling her how he misses her and how he wants her back, and of course, what movie would it be without some sex scene. So they start to kiss, go all over each other, and she of course has lace laundry on her, she is all shaved and ready for sex even though she didn't expect one. And now comes the interesting part. She get the orgasm just in a minute that his soldier went marching in her. And I was like: "Are you f*cking kidding me!??"

It is no miracle that guys have opinion that we are always ready for sex and that they don't have to even try in bed, because it is enough just to "get in" and the job is done. Well, if they see that in a movie, it has to be true, right?
Or maybe they think like, all the girls that i have been sleeping with had orgasms like that.
No way!!!!
Nope, guess again, they faked it. I bet on that!
So for all of you guys who really get all those movies literally, let me tell you a few secrets:

1. NO, WE ARE NOT ALWAYS READY FOR SEX!-So dear guys, do you know how much preparation do we need to have sex with you? We need to shave, everything or at least most of it, it depends on woman I guess. We are not always smooth like in the movies. We have body hair too. On our legs, bikini zone. And we don't shave every day if we don't have to or if we don't expect to have sex, because, lets be real, we have no time for that and we don't want to. Besides, even our skin needs a break from time to time. You don't shave your beard every day if you don't have to, right?

2. NO WE WON'T JUST GET ORGASM WHEN YOU GO IN!-For God sake, do I even need to explain this to you guys? We need foreplay, lots of it. Our body doesn't function like yours do. For you it is enough just to see us naked, but for a girl it is a different story. You can't even enter if we are not "In the mood" enough and that is pure biology. So yeah, you need to make a lot of effort to get as on the edge. Just going in won't do the trick.

3. NO, WE DON'T LOOK PERFECT WHEN WE JUST WAKE UP!-We are humans too, so yeah, when we wake up, our hair is messy, we have no make up so of course we don't look the same as we do when we get decent and go out. And you know what, we don't have to. We can be messy, have our sweatshirt on us instead some sexy nightie, because you know what, we want to be comfortable just as much as you want when we are at home. We are sick of make up, our bra, high heels, and when we close that door we just want to relax so deal with it!

4. IF YOU WAKE US UP, WE WON'T BE HAPPY!-Especially if some idiot ex is knocking on our door and wants to have sex. We need our 8 hours of beauty sleep, so if you mess with that for no good reason but to have sex, get ready to be yelled at.

5. WE ARE NOT PERFECT AND WE DON'T WANT TO BE!-So yeah, we are not perfect, and as a matter of fact, we don't want to be. We have flaws, cellulite and everything else, but you know what, we are looking for someone who knows all our flaws, and still loves us and still thinks that we are perfect and looking beautiful in our big old sweatshirt. We want someone who wants to make love to us even when our legs are not so smooth shaved, and if you can do that for a woman, you will get imperfectly perfect woman just for you, who will love you for who you really are, no matter did you just shaved your beard or not.
We are not perfect, but we sure as hell are worth it!

HEART WANTS WHAT IT WANTS

I was reading some articles and I ran into one quote that catch my eye.

“I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” 
― Maya Angelou

And if you think about it, it makes sense and it's true. Mind can fail you in many ways, your memory won't always hold on to every word or detail, but your heart, he never fails you. I bet that every one of us can remember how did we feel when we had our first kiss, or first sex or even a first break up. Can you all remember how does it feel to be loved and how does it feel when your heart is broken? I bet you do. And so do I.

If there is many of you guys who didn't get over your exes I bet that is the reason why. Many of us know that ex is bad for us and that person is ex for the right reasons and we have to move on, but we still hold on to it, and not because you remember what did that ex said or done, but because your heart remembers how did you feel when that ex said first I love you, your heart still remembers how does it feel to have his/her lips on yours, how does it feel to make love to that person, how does it feel when that person wrap his/her arm around you. Heart remembers, even your skin remembers those goosebumps you felt when his/hers arm was on you. So there for, you will always remember how did he/she made you feel, and if you think that you miss your ex boyfriend or girlfriend, you don't actually. You miss the way he/she made you feel.

Maybe that feeling is happiness, maybe sense of security or feeling that you are loved and wanted. And I think that until you find those feelings that you felt with ex boyfriend or girlfriend in another person, you are stuck with not being able to move on.
But I'll admit, feelings are tricky little things. You never know what will wake them up. Old song, old place that you went with the person from your past or even a movie you guys watched together will do the trick. And you are back to that memory land again.

But it does make you wonder, doesn't it? About your behavior towards other people. Imagine if we all went every day with that thought that every one of the people that we have contact with will remember how did we make them feel, don't you think that a world would be a better place?