IT'S JUST LIFE, NOTHING PERSONAL

So the other day I was talking to someone about its job and the fact that he is taking everything too personal, when he should think of it like just a job. I was telling him to stop stressing about what his boss is telling him or about how much work he has. He should just do the best he can, and when his work hours are done, he should leave his job and all problem there. Not to bring it home. Because, like I said, it is just business, nothing personal.

Then I was thinking about it and it crossed my mind that the same advice I gave to him, we can all use in life too. Not just for work, but for everything that comes in our way.
I mean think about it. Everything good and bad that happens, it is just life. Bad things happen to us so that we can appreciate them when they are good. Evil wouldn't exist without good, and the other way around. How can we enjoy a good laugh if we don't know how does it feel to be sad and cry? Everything in this world needs balance. Did you ever see a good person that is going trough something bad and you thought to yourself: "That is so not fair, he/she is good person and he/she doesn't deserve it!"
Life is not fair and it is not supposed to be fair. It is messy and complicated, but it is also fun, beautiful and it has its moments.
Good and bad things will happen to all of us from time to time, and that has nothing to do with the fact are we a good person or not. It has nothing to do with what we ever did in life and it has nothing to do with karma and punishment. It is just life. Complicated, beautiful, difficult, messy life that needs balance.

What if we could train ourselves, our brain and our emotions in that way. To be objective, to not take things too personal?
What if every day we would tell ourselves: "It's just life, nothing personal!" and in that way we would day by day change our perspective about it.
Don't you think that it would make life and everything that happens to you much easier?
Once I read that life is 10% of what happens to us and 90% of how we react to it.
It is worth to try it at least, right?
Anyway, if we do the best of what we can do each day, that is good enough.

BLOG-LIFE AT ITS BEST

So this post is all about girls. And everyone who feels like it. :)
I think that there is small number of girls who never have to fight battle with a broken nail. And that looks nasty because we take care of them so long, so much time invested in them, just that one nail can broke and make the rest of them look ugly. And you know that feeling when you should cut them all because of that one broken? Yeah, all effort goes in a toilet.
So I was googling and trying to find some solution about it, and I run into one blog and I have to tell you girls, I love it. That girl is miracle worker, because not only that she found a way to fix that broken nail, she also had lots of other ideas.

http://lifeaib.blogspot.ba/2016/03/how-to-fix-broken-nail-kako-popraviti.html

I was going trough her blog and I was impressed. She explains all easy and she writes her posts on two languages, English and Croatian.
Her name is Alisa, Stuttgard/BIH and she will definitely help you live your life at its best.

http://lifeaib.blogspot.ba/

So while I was trying to find some more helpful tips, I run into post about contouring. I think we all heard about Kim Kardashian and this contouring is her territory. I have to admit, I suck in that. I even don't know what to buy and how to do that, but luckily , this girl in blog knows her magic.

http://lifeaib.blogspot.ba/2016/04/loreal-indefectible-sculpt-contouring.html

So on my next paycheck am getting all Loreal equipment and I will try to do contouring without looking like a clown. Hopefully. :)

And I would like to single out one more post that I loved, because I really needed help with that, and now I found it. Post is about perfect foundation for all skin types. It was always hard for me to figure out what foundation my skin needs and what label product is good for it.

http://lifeaib.blogspot.ba/2016/04/how-to-choose-perfect-foundation.html

So girls if you need a little bit of help with your beauty tips and improving life style, you should check out this blog. It is worth your time. :)

ROLES WE PLAY-THE SHOW MUST GO ON

I was thinking recently about human life. Life in general. It seems to me that life is like one theater play and each and every one of us has its own role in it. With different scripts but the same director-Destiny.
If you think about it for a second, you will see am kind of right. From day one you were born, your role is that you are someones child. If you are not first born, then you get two roles, like I did. You become someones child and someones brother or sister. So from the start parents are teaching you how to play your roles. Respect parents so that you will play good child role. Take care of brother or sister, because when your parents die one day, you will have each other.

 Then you get little bit older, you make friends and there you go. You just got another role. You are someones friend. Then you fall in love, you enter relationship and you find yourself in one completely different role. You are someones girlfriend or boyfriend and I think that one is much more interesting. Because that role wakes up in us feelings that we didn't know even exist before we fall in love.

And while you are growing up and our roles are adding up. You are someones student, latter you are someones work colleague, maybe one day even someones boss. Then if we are lucky, we find that person we want to spend our life with. From someones girlfriend or boyfriend we become someones wife or husband. Latter maybe even someones parents, and that role is the most difficult one, but brings so much pleasure.
But there is not the end, list of roles trough life is huge, like someones son in law, brother in law, mother in law, father-in-law, somebody's grandparents, mistress, lover and so on and so on. List is endless. I just mentioned basic roles.

I guess what I was trying to say, for all you guys there who lost someone, who lost one role in their life, just hold on tight to all other roles you've got. And let them help you and you will live trough it. That is why God and Destiny gave us so much roles to play, to make it easier in life when we lose one. Because like in theater, so in life-The show must go on. Life goes on.
Just hold on folks. :)